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My Approach

Awareness Before Change

Every emotion carries information.
When we learn to listen to what emotions are trying to tell us — instead of fighting, ignoring, or judging them — we gain clarity about ourselves and others. Awareness is always the first step toward meaningful change.

The Framework

 

My approach is built on the RULER model of emotional intelligence, combined with elements of mindful communication and language therapy.

Together, these tools help clients:

  • Recognize emotions in themselves and others

  • Understand what emotions are communicating

  • Label feelings accurately

  • Express them clearly and respectfully

  • Regulate responses in healthy ways

This process gives structure to emotional growth while keeping it deeply personal and practical.

Real-Life Application

Every session focuses on awareness that can be used right away — whether it’s understanding a tone in conversation, noticing a trigger, or slowing down before reacting.
We apply the skills to real-life situations at home, school, or work, so clients experience change not just in theory, but in daily living.

The Outcome

When people understand themselves, they naturally understand others better.
Communication improves, relationships strengthen, and daily interactions become smoother.
It’s not about becoming a different person — it’s about becoming more you, with awareness guiding every step.

Ready to begin your social & emotional journey? Let’s Talk
 
Tel: ‪(732) 691-4172‬

2289 Big Enough Way Toms River, NJ, 08755

 

Mutty Kornfeld, MS, SLP

Social & Emotional Therapy

© 2025 by Mutty Kornfeld, MS, SLP

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