Learn the whole person
I learn his triggers, perspective, body language, history, and what happens around a reaction.
Social & Emotional Language Therapy
When feelings are hard to explain, behavior often takes over.
I help boys, teens, and men understand their reactions, put difficult experiences into words, and build better ways to respond. When a younger client is involved, parents learn how to support the same work at home.
I help boys, teens, and men understand their reactions and communicate more clearly. Parents learn how to support the same work at home.
Toms River · Telehealth in New Jersey & New York
You may be here because
The same difficult moments keep repeating.
A correction at home turns into a long argument.
Difficult schoolwork leads to silliness, refusal, or shutdown.
He wants connection but keeps missing what the other person needs.
How I help
I learn the person before we work on the pattern.
Be a clear mirror
I reflect the pattern without judgment so he can see it clearly without feeling defined by it.
Build curiosity and choice
We ask whether the pattern is helping, then practice clearer words and responses. Parents learn the same approach when appropriate.
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Real situations
Questions from real life
Find a concern that sounds familiar.
Feelings
Every emotion has a job
See what nine emotion groupings can help you notice.
What you see
Behavior is communication
Look for the need, stress, or skill beneath a reaction.
Practical reading
Articles
Explore one idea with examples and a next step.
Five connected skills
RULER skills
Recognize, understand, label, express, and regulate.
About Mutty
A human mirror, not another judge.
I'm Mutty Kornfeld, a speech language pathologist who works with boys, teens, and men when emotions, behavior, and relationships are hard to put into words.
My role is to understand how the person experiences the world, reflect what I notice without judgment, and help him become curious about his own patterns. That curiosity creates room for clearer language and better choices.
Meet MuttyContact
Start with a short conversation.
Ask your questions and hear how I would begin.
Toms River · Telehealth in New Jersey & New York